Boundaries

My loves

‘I’m very picky with whom I give my energy to. I prefer to reserve my time, intensity and spirit exclusively to those who reflect sincerity.’ Dau Voire

Oh how I’ve spent time with people who drain the life force from me. I’ve listened to the repetition and non-decision of people who say I love you, help me and yet will not help themselves, because how could they? I’d created perfect conditions for co-dependency and that gave me meaning, aren’t I clever? No, no I was not. Oh how I have thought I had helped those people only to lose a little more of myself; as I lost my sparkle, their glow shone. An empty G Love is in truth, no love at all and without love we have nothing.

When I look at you from my heart and speak with this my soul voice, I know you can feel my truth and see me in all my glory. It’s in your smile, the crinkle of your eyes and the way my tummy flips as two souls see one another. Limitless, glorious and golden, my loves this is how I see you all. No more do I create spacious rooms, places of expansion within and around myself only to fill them with nonsense. I know what you’re doing when you ask for time to vent, no more are you allowed to rent any space within me as boundaries are bound, there for a reason, to keep me and you safe and sound.  Freeing for me, freeing for you and codependence for neither and so it is.

We are in charge, never forget this, it is our choice which way we swing in the emotional winds of our lives. We are our hearts, minds, our energy and it’s up to us to preserve, create or spend it. We are able to manage ourselves and so we must. As part of creating boundaries so too I let go all my hurt from previous tenants, I let it pour from me like tears, to excavate every cell of learned pain and release it.  I don’t serve the old tenants, they are no longer my masters, I am free as we all are my loves when we choose ourselves and secure our hearts in truth.

‘I’m very picky with whom I give my energy to. I prefer to reserve my time, intensity and spirit exclusively to those who reflect sincerity.’ Don’t you?

G Love